Love is like a coin that's made up of two sides, the head and the tail, which goes well and very pleasurable when the partners just met and are learning how to fall in love, you could remember the thrills then.
The way you felt like singing all day long, and all that emotions. So also love has got its other side and just as it brings so much excitement and happiness when you met love it also has some painful and heartbreaking side when it goes bad or let's say sour.
Just like any other feelings we have that's how love is and when it turns into something you now hate some things come into play, you begin to feel lonely because of the absence of love you do get from him before now that he has withdrew you'll feel the emptiness.
Love is such an important point of discussion especially when it begins to go the other way you didn't plan for, you know when a man is not happy it affects all his mood so also when things turn upside down in love if affects other important aspect of the persons life.
You become irresponsible and untidy, before you know what's up, easily things will begin to irritate you and when you start complaining too often then you know your love is standing on its two legs instead of four and can fall anytime from now.
The reason behind the hurtful nature of love is also low self esteem, that's just it those that have it didn't just buy it, they believe they can never do well or right all they think of their selves is failure.
When you begin to nurture such type of thoughts and so look down on your self, then your relationship is seeing the other side of love.
Love is just like a ripe mango, when its ripe he could be eaten by the partners but as time goes on let's say its just kept somewhere it begins to rout and before you know it goes bad and start smelling.
So also is love it should always be cherished, maintained and always checked because if it goes bad nobody will enjoy it.
Maybe in your own case its gotten critical and your relationship has gone beyond saving and you have to break it up with the guy or girl.
Don't go and live with the other side of love because it has nothing to offer you other than regret, painful memories, and hurt.
That you broke up your relationship recently doesn't mean you should be isolating yourself from others, you may run mad if you let that weigh you down and if you always talk about it.
Let it go, you'll find a better man, break up happen almost every day around the globe so don't feel too bad for yourself like you are about to loose your life cheer up and always remember "every break up is an added experience for you to make up your next relationship"
Love can hurt so bad that will make you drink till you drunk, yes some people take to drinking and see beer as their only friend at that time.
The other side of love that shows his ugly head around when break up happens or just about to happen can't be stopped at that point because no matter how a relationship is, nobody feels good when its called off.
You'll feel a part of you leaving and the thing that comes to your mind at that moment is "I'll never fall in love again, am done loving" but deep down you don't really mean it but because of the bitter experience you had and the pain it brought you think of remaining stagnant.
Guys that's not the way it should be forward ever and backward only when reasonable, it just means its time for you to advance and move on past that sad relationship.
that's the best option at that particular time, and a very wise step to take don't live in the past time for you to get a live and get going.
Many people will love to remain at a point and think about our it all ended till they grow thin and thin or even become insane.
Why should you run yourself mad because of your partner who did a favor for you by allowing you to see the greater achievement in the next relationship you going to have.
Its not worth all those mourning like you lost somebody cheer up when you have life there is hope attached to it.
Love is such an important point of discussion especially when it begins to go the other way you didn't plan for, you know when a man is not happy it affects all his mood so also when things turn upside down in love if affects other important aspect of the persons life.
You become irresponsible and untidy, before you know what's up, easily things will begin to irritate you and when you start complaining too often then you know your love is standing on its two legs instead of four and can fall anytime from now.
The reason behind the hurtful nature of love is also low self esteem, that's just it those that have it didn't just buy it, they believe they can never do well or right all they think of their selves is failure.
When you begin to nurture such type of thoughts and so look down on your self, then your relationship is seeing the other side of love.
Love is just like a ripe mango, when its ripe he could be eaten by the partners but as time goes on let's say its just kept somewhere it begins to rout and before you know it goes bad and start smelling.
So also is love it should always be cherished, maintained and always checked because if it goes bad nobody will enjoy it.
Maybe in your own case its gotten critical and your relationship has gone beyond saving and you have to break it up with the guy or girl.
Don't go and live with the other side of love because it has nothing to offer you other than regret, painful memories, and hurt.
That you broke up your relationship recently doesn't mean you should be isolating yourself from others, you may run mad if you let that weigh you down and if you always talk about it.
Let it go, you'll find a better man, break up happen almost every day around the globe so don't feel too bad for yourself like you are about to loose your life cheer up and always remember "every break up is an added experience for you to make up your next relationship"
Love can hurt so bad that will make you drink till you drunk, yes some people take to drinking and see beer as their only friend at that time.
The other side of love that shows his ugly head around when break up happens or just about to happen can't be stopped at that point because no matter how a relationship is, nobody feels good when its called off.
You'll feel a part of you leaving and the thing that comes to your mind at that moment is "I'll never fall in love again, am done loving" but deep down you don't really mean it but because of the bitter experience you had and the pain it brought you think of remaining stagnant.
Guys that's not the way it should be forward ever and backward only when reasonable, it just means its time for you to advance and move on past that sad relationship.
that's the best option at that particular time, and a very wise step to take don't live in the past time for you to get a live and get going.
Many people will love to remain at a point and think about our it all ended till they grow thin and thin or even become insane.
Why should you run yourself mad because of your partner who did a favor for you by allowing you to see the greater achievement in the next relationship you going to have.
Its not worth all those mourning like you lost somebody cheer up when you have life there is hope attached to it.
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