The school of marriage is one school you never really graduate from. No matter what you've learnt, there is always something new to learn, something new to know about your partner, with marriage, you never really get to exhausting the curriculum and assessment never really stop.
This is so because marriage brings together two people from different social, spiritual, and intellectual backgrounds, and perhaps, emotional maturity and age. It takes time and patience therefore to know each others likes and dislikes, tastes and preferences. It takes grace, tact and wisdom to get the difference blended up to make a harmonious living.
Ordinarily, its not good to engage in wishful thinking, but that is the case where the wishes are unexpressed, where they live only in the mind, when they are expressed they go a long way in solving a lot of problems. They make you know what your partner wants and how to help him or her at any given time.
The views we are trying to express here are meant to help you take a peep into the mind of your partner, the are meant to help you know the likes and dislikes of each other more, of course such knowledge make for a better understanding, appreciation and enduring relationship.
"Today if ye will hear his voice, harden not your hearts" (hebrews 3:7,8) God wants to heal your marriage he wants to strengthen the relationship between you and your spouse, but that will depend on what you do with the content of this post you just read, its my earnest prayer that as you take to heart the corrections you read herein and pray for grace to live by them, the Lord will turn things around in your marriage in jesus name.
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